The Breezy Rebellion
A Closer Look At Why I Made My Wardrobe Gender Expansive (And Why You Should Too!)
Remember how I mentioned shoes sparking my gender expression journey? Well, buckle up, because that was just the first step on a glorious path of discovery! If you read my last installment, you might be asking yourself what my penchant for whimsical skirts, dresses, and heels makes me. Ditch the dictionary for a sec, because fashion isn't about labels – at least not the kind that involves categorization; it's about expressing yourself! Humans categorize everything, from our sock drawer to our music playlists, and there are various terms to describe people who identify with the gender assigned to them at birth but who fall outside the gender norms – like "gender expansive" or "androgynous." These are like cousins in the world of self-expression, all related but with their own unique flair.
For me, "gender nonconforming" felt like the best fit, even though it's not a perfect description. I mean, who says you can't throw on a suit when the situation calls for it? The beauty is, I can do both skirts and suits, because clothing is just clothing, and how I rock it is all me. So, let's just say I like to play by my own fashion rules, not some pre-written ones!
Now let’s talk about skirts. For me, this all started with a frustrating wardrobe crisis (thanks, stress weight!). My usual pants felt like a war zone, and comfort became a distant memory. But instead of feeling defeated, I had a revelation: skirts! Adjustable waistbands? Check. But the benefits went way beyond avoiding the dreaded muffin top.
Guys, have you ever experienced the glorious breeze whispering secrets to your family jewels? Probably not since the days of the crotch vent in automobiles. Skirts, my friends, are nature's air conditioners for the nether regions. It's no wonder men have rocked skirts for centuries, and many cultures still do – from the lungi in India to the kilt in Scotland. Pants, for all their practicality, just aren't built for optimal midtown temperature control. Skirts are the ultimate temperature control system, keeping you cool and comfortable all day long.
Now, about the selection! Let's face it, men's clothing can be a bit...well, boring. Gingham? Off-the-shoulder anything? Floral prints that don't scream "lumberjack"? Forget about it. But venture across the fashion aisle, and a whole new world opens up. Lace, taffeta, playful patterns – it's like a sartorial parade waiting to happen!
Here's the thing: embracing gender nonconformity wasn't just about the clothes. It also empowered me to take charge of my health by extension. Seeing myself in flowy skirts and cool summer dresses I loved sparked a fire. I wanted to feel confident and take care of myself. So for this and many other reasons, I started Zepbound – giving myself some medical help to reach a healthier weight while also looking forward to being able to rock those killer outfits that just weren't available in my current size.
So, this is an invitation to people of all genders. Don't be afraid to break the fashion mold. Explore, experiment, and discover the joys of a skirt that twirls with the wind, or a blouse that drapes just right. You might be surprised by the comfort, the confidence, and the sheer fun you find on the other side of the clothing aisle. The world of fashion awaits, and it's filled with endless possibilities – all waiting for you to unleash your inner stylist!